Dear Jonny, I’m Dumb…
I have a tendency to get involved with men who are much smarter than I am. Because of that, guys tend to get rid of me after a few months. Sometimes sooner. It’s almost always the same story. Sex. Lots of sex. Then they either say that I’m too dumb for them or they’re too smart for me. That I’m too consumed by pop culture. Then it’s over. You’d think I’d just switch to dating simpler guys, but in reality they just don’t do it for me. CAN’T do it for me. I’m attracted to intelligence, and there’s no way around it. I won’t compromise. What do you think I should do?
Dumb people don’t think hard enough to formulate questions like the one above. That leads me to believe you’re a smart woman who plays dumb because she enjoys submission. What you’re really attracted to is feeling dominated, which in itself is pretty much harmless. But why not try keeping the “Handcuff me!” type attitude in the bedroom? In the meantime, switch off the television, pick up a book, and start a conversation about something other than Lady Gaga. That’s an intelligent place to start.